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Bewitched, Besotted, & Betrothed - Strong Committment, Elminating Rivals or Toxicity in a Relationship


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Let's start with some definitions, because the meanings behind these words are what I had in mind when creating this service:

Bewitched - Enchanted and delighted by someone. Synonyms: charmed, beguiled, delighted by, captivated, entranced.

Besotted - Strongly infatuated, in love with, love-struck by.

Betrothed - The person to whom one is engaged or committed to. Synonyms: busy, unavailable, occupied, tied-up

 No, this is not a Frank Sinatra song, either, although I do love Frank. 

This working is similar in nature to our Enamored, Enthralled & Enchanted working. However, it does have some important differences. This working focuses on removing toxicity from a relationship, removing residual negative energy from the past if it wasn't so great, and even eliminating your partner's attention on your rivals.  

OK, so, let me clarify a few things, because I know that is an interesting list of things to focus on. So, here's what I have in mind. We want to eliminate whatever it is with your partner that is affecting your relationship and preventing it from being healthy and successful. For example: they had a bad experience with a relationship in the past and now they are afraid to trust you, or you find you are taking the blame for their past love's mistakes or other ways they have been failed in the past. That is toxicity that needs to be eliminated. They're hanging on to the past, something that is doing neither of you any good, and a world of harm.   

Another example would be, they have been carrying a torch for this other woman, and you feel like they just haven't let it go.  Maybe they're not really seeing anyone else, or maybe they are. You may never know. But that shadow of a doubt is going to linger and manifest itself in negative ways. That needs to be eliminated. You want to make sure they are only thinking of you and focusing on you. (If in fact they are not doing anything wrong, you need to let that go too, and heal from that.) AND, you want any woman that comes near him to pick up on her little radar, "Hmm, this man feels like he is taken; Ima clear out."  Yep, put your brand on him and ruin him for all other women at the same time.


This working focuses on some deep core issues that you may be dealing with in your relationship. Every symptom has a cause. Every branch has a root. We need to get down to those and determine what they are in your situation and work to fix them.  

Do you both argue a lot, or lose your temper? That is toxicity. And you need to remedy that.

Can you never seem to agree or seem to go out of your way to disagree? There's probably a deeper reason for that. 

Like Elvis said, we can't go on together with suspicious minds. There are some things you can nip in the bud, and then there are some other things you have to dig for and find the root.

So, what we are wanting to achieve is making sure that there are no outside influences getting in the way of your relationship. None. Not another woman being in your man's ear, not his buddies telling him what he should or shouldn't do and giving really bad advice, and making sure that woman he works with is only a co-worker in his mind and nothing more. 

Plus, we are also wanting to achieve a deep commitment that is genuine, and sincere infatuation that doesn't grow old and stale, and the willingness to turn their attention away from anything and everything else but you.  So how does that sound? 

What I would need from you are both your names, dates of birth, and photos, plus any petition you wish for me to use. Your own words hold a lot of power, so I prefer if you write something especially for me to use. It is best to keep it as short, sincere, and to-the-point as possible, but if you feel your situation requires you to use more words to be specific, then that is perfectly fine, and I can work with that. I really like it when clients will write something for me to use, in their own words because it puts your energy into the working. And it doesn't have to be fancy or written any particular way. You can write it as if you are writing a note to that person, or a list of things you would like to see happen with them/from them, or you can write something like a positive affirmation as if you have already received (in the present tense) the things you are asking for. 

Just a little word of advice, while you are waiting for these types of things to manifest, be sure that you are putting effort into the relationship as well.  Don't sit back and wait for the other person to become Prince Charming or a storybook princess.  Be sure you are doing the things you are asking of them as well, and love them the way you want to be loved in return. If you want them to love you better, be sure you are reciprocating in the meantime. Every relationship must be mutual. And it's not always 50-50. Sometimes in any relationship one person gives more than the other, but both must put in effort for it to work.


*Also, please note: When I say this is a good working for toxic relationships, here is what I do NOT mean: If your significant other is a substance abuser, narcissistic, or prone to domestic violence.  NONE of those things are OK, and that person needs professional help. And this working is not designed to help fix those things, nor am I encouraging you to stay in such a situation and try to fix it. Get yourself to a place of safety, and stay there. And worry about Hoodoo later. Contact the proper authorities or people who are trained to help. If you don't know any resources, email me and I can give you some phone numbers for folks who are trained and equipped to help.

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Please be sure of your purchase beforehand, and certain of what you really want. Before purchase, please be aware that I do not offer refunds, exchanges, or free recasts or free work of any kind. My terms and conditions can be found on this website, and by purchasing you are agreeing to those. Aside from complications of a situation or obstacles, outcomes are determined by God, the Spirits, Orishas, & Loas, and by the decisions of one's free will. Hoodoo and Rootwork are a way of life, a relationship with the Spirits to enrich our lives, and tools to help us to make better decisions that can lead to more positive outcomes.

I cannot be held responsible for outcomes of work performed on your behalf or how you use our products. All services are sold for entertainment purposes only, and all items are sold as curios. Spiritual work of any kind is no substitute for medical, psychological, legal, or professional treatment or advice or any kind. We are not responsible in any way for any results or outcome related to the services or products we provide for you.

 Every relationship is different, and any spell or rootwork manifests differently or may not work in each situation, so keep that in mind. If there are underlying issues, those will have to be dealt with at some point. Our negative or positive actions are more of a symptom to a deeper issue, and we must realize that. Relationships are complicated, and if there are deep issues going on or problems with the relationship, then those are going to have to be dealt with one-on-one, between the two of you. One of the keys is communication in most circumstances.

New Service created and listed Nov 29 2019

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