I created this working to help a client who is dealing with someone who has very extreme narcissistic tendencies. But I feel that it would be beneficial to many so I am offering it as a regular listing. HOWEVER, please read thoroughly, because choosing to try to help toxic people is very risky to you, and there are resources out there that can help.
Narcissists can be difficult to reach and affect by spiritual work because they are on a whole different level, not on the same page as you, and are on a different chapter in a whole different book. They are self-centered and want every scenario to be about them and play the victim in every situation. They want others to see them a different way, and they spin a story to make them come out on top in every situation in their lives. They will re-tell a story that goes through some kind of obscuring filter in their minds, in such a way that it comes out completely unrecognizable to you.
Narcissists try to create a world where they are the hero and actually begin to believe what starts out as lies and complete fabrications. And what is scary is that they actually do create their own realities and take things so far that what they believe and speak does in fact become reality. We all do that and it is a basic principle of magick - what we believe and speak becomes into creation and becomes something tangible. That is why we have to realize that our words hold power - the words we speak to ourselves as well as the ones we speak out loud to others.
Some people like this have a hard time seeing anyone else's perspective but their own and don't respond well to dominating or controlling workings, and will look for a way to wriggle out of it and twist things around and call it criticism and play the victim scenario. So what I had in mind was achieving a way for them to have to take a good long look in the mirror, at themselves, and what they have/are doing, and to also have the intent we want to achieve reflected back on them with no means of escape. This is a little hardcore, and may be a little risky, but I think the theory is sound. Some folks like this can be a hard nut to crack, but I think that for some it can be a step in the right direction and can be the spiritual push they need to get things back on track. So, this can be good for people who behave in bizarre ways and do things that make no sense and refuse to hear any one else's side of the story or refuse to look at things from anyone else's perspective.
If some people can't be honest with themselves, then they can't really see you for what you are, or situations for what they really are either, and it is going to have a negative effect on everything else in their lives and their relationships with others.
Plus, even more importantly, when you care about someone who is doing these things, it makes it even harder on you, because you're the one who has to deal with this shit. They take things out on you and grossly misdirect their own fears and insecurities, and misrepresent themselves in every way.
So this also brings us to gaslighting - some people want to keep you down, make you think you're going crazy, to achieve their own personal goals. Some may not even realize they are doing it, but we want to make them realize it the only way we can - through spiritual means. And just to let you know, there are other folks out there like you, going through these same things. No, you're not crazy, no there is nothing wrong with you, no this isn't all your imagination. Many of us have been through it or are going through it. You are being made to feel like everything you do is wrong - like you are forgetting things, or not seeing something that you should, or that you are missing some piece of the puzzle. This is toxic behavior being pushed at you, because of someone else's problem. It's their problem, not yours. But you are left to deal with it and pick up the broken pieces and try to make it into something good. When all the while, it is the other person who has a severe mental problem - not you. They are actually insecure, unwell, unstable, and desperate and feed on your fear and insecurities and your desperation to please them, cater to them, appease them like an angry god, all the while you are living in fear of sudden explosions from them. You never know when those will happen, when things will take a weird turn for the worse, or you will step on a landmine.
If it sounds like I am speaking from experience here, it is because I am. These are dark spirits that show up unannounced at any given moment, but guess what? There are also spirits that can keep those wrathful ones in check. So, there is hope for you. The best thing you can do is to get away from those people and out of that toxic environment? Not an option? I understand, but if you're going to stay and fight for your own sanity, you need to realize what you're dealing with and survival is sometimes a combination of fight, flight, or hide. And so sometimes you have to hide that you are protecting yourself spiritually and fighting back in the same way. You don't have to be the victim and you are not powerless if you are spiritually and mentally strong enough. But I don't recommend putting yourself in harm's way or living to just merely survive. You need to realize that people like this will kill you at the worst case scenario, and at best will drain you completely dry mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, to where you are just a shell of yourself and empty and live only to serve, be submissive to, and worship a monster. So, that is my caution to you. SEEK PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN REGARDS TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. I have put some reputable resources for you at the end of this listing.
And so, to further explain this working, what we do is write a petition that goes inside the compartment that is lined with mirrors, and use photos or other items, and the mirrors serve the purpose of making our intent inescapable and reflected back to them no matter where they turn.
This working is completely customizable to your situation, and how you need to affect a particular person. Everyone's situation and needs are different, so this can be used to help with healing, clarity of thought and mind, help with getting a specific point across to someone, to make someone see things your way, or see the things you want them to see and think the thoughts you want them to think.
It is all about your need and intent. I can customize it however you want and will choose the formulas and other items used accordingly. So, please tell me all about your situation.
Upon ordering, please be sure you send me the information of the person for whom this working is intended, including their full name, date of birth, and photo, as well as any petition/stated goal or intent. I will also need the same information for you if you are involved in the situation. You can send all of this information to firstname.lastname@example.org. If no information is received, I will perform a general working on your behalf which will be difficult to do and this may diminish the results you wish to achieve, so it is important for your desired outcome to send me as much information as possible.
I have set the price for this working to $265 which is a little more than my usual price for workings because I want to make sure that people who order this service are serious and are sure of their choice. Additionally, this service requires some extra prep work including time and materials.
Photo is example only. Your working will be unique to your situation and circumstances.
Upon completion, you will receive a PDF document with photos of your working, documentation, and interpretation of the divination signs of the candle, via email.
Please be sure of your purchase beforehand, and certain of what you really want. Before purchase, please be aware that I do not offer refunds, exchanges, or free recasts or free work of any kind. My terms and conditions can be found on this website, and by purchasing you are agreeing to those. Aside from complications of a situation or obstacles, outcomes are determined by God, the Spirits, Orishas, & Loas, and by the decisions of one's free will. Hoodoo and Rootwork are a way of life, a relationship with the Spirits to enrich our lives, and tools to help us to make better decisions that can lead to more positive outcomes. If you are under the impression that one rootwork service will completely fix all of the issues regarding your situation, that is a mistaken understanding of the way Hoodoo works, and I encourage you to do your own research.
I cannot be held responsible for outcomes of spiritual services performed on your behalf or how you use our products. All services are sold for entertainment purposes only, and all items are sold as curios. Spiritual work of any kind is no substitute for medical, psychological, or professional treatment or advice or any kind. We are not responsible in any way for any results or outcome related to the services or products we provide for you.
I am not a psychiatrist, psychologist, medical doctor, attorney, life coach, therapist, or counsellor and cannot be a substitute for any of these things for anyone. I offer spiritual guidance when possible and spiritual products and services only.
IF YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE SITUATION (DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, NARCISSISM, GASLIGHTING), GET YOURSELF TO SAFETY AND WORRY ABOUT HOODOO LATER. Some resources that may be helpful to you:
https://www.crisistextline.org/abuse Text CONNECT to 741741
National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 (1-800-799-SAFE)
National Suicide Prevention Hotline 1-800-273-8255